The Ugly Truth About Being a Mom Entrepreneur: 5 Things That Seem Impossible Before They Get Better

The Ugly Truth About Being a Mom Entrepreneur: 5 Things That Seem Impossible Before They Get Better

Being a mom entrepreneur can be an incredibly rewarding experience, but it’s not without its challenges. From juggling multiple responsibilities to dealing with self-doubt, it can be tough to navigate the ups and downs of building a business while also raising a family. Take it from a wife and mom of 4! In this blog post, we’ll explore five things that seem impossible when you first start out in the first few years as a mom entrepreneur, but get easier with time. If you’re struggling with any of these challenges, remember that you’re not alone – and that there is light at the end of the tunnel.



1. Balancing work and family

One of the biggest challenges for mom entrepreneurs is finding a balance between work and family. When you’re building a business, it can be all-consuming, and it can feel like you’re neglecting your family when you’re focused on work. On the other hand, when you’re spending time with your family, it can be difficult to switch off from work and give them your full attention. For me, when I started my entrepreneurial journey, I had one child. Now, 16 years later, I have 4! That’s a lot of balancing and room for mom guilt.

The truth is, finding a balance is a journey, not a destination. And let me add another truth bomb: it’s damn near impossible! There will be times when work takes priority, and times when family takes priority. The key is to be present in the moment, and to communicate with your family about your priorities and schedule. Set boundaries around your work time and stick to them, but also be flexible when family needs arise.

It’s also important to remember that balance doesn’t mean equal time spent on work and family. It’s about finding a rhythm that works for you and your family, and being intentional about how you spend your time.



2. Dealing with self-doubt

Starting a business can be scary, and it’s natural to have self-doubt at times. As a mom entrepreneur, you may feel like you’re not doing enough for your family, or that you’re not qualified or experienced enough to run a business. Yep, you’ve heard the term; Imposter Syndrome.

The truth is, everyone has moments of self-doubt – even successful entrepreneurs. Since we are such emotional beings, our feelings of fear and doubt act out in very real ways. It starts with the feeling of not wanting to show up, and can affect the way we produce (or don’t produce) our content. The key is to acknowledge your feelings, but not let them hold you back. Surround yourself with supportive people who believe in you and your business, and seek out mentors or coaches who can offer guidance and encouragement.

It’s also important to celebrate your wins, no matter how small. Every step forward is a step in the right direction, and acknowledging your progress can help boost your confidence and motivate you to keep going.



3. Overcoming isolation

As a mom entrepreneur, it can be easy to feel isolated. For the first 10 years of my marriage, I feel like I have put myself in self-isolation. I was so focused on my family and business that I really closed off a lot of areas of my life and people that I once enjoyed. I felt like no one would understand my life; that I was so unique. I’ve come to realize so many years after that what I was thinking was a load of crap. There are so many women all over the world that go through the same circumstances as me. Looking back, I feel like a lot of time was wasted, and I should never think that. Everything happens for a reason and get’s better with time.

You may be working from home or running your business solo, and it can feel like no one else understands what you’re going through. Just know that the feeling is just an illusion. The truth is, there are many other mom entrepreneurs out there who are facing the same challenges as you. Seek out online communities or in-person networking groups or events (like The Ultimate Mompreneur Brunch) where you can connect with other entrepreneurs, share experiences, and offer support.

It’s also important to make time for socializing outside of work. Schedule coffee dates or playdates with other moms, or attend events or classes that interest you. Taking time to connect with others can help combat feelings of isolation and keep you motivated.



4. Managing finances

Starting a business can be expensive, and it’s natural to worry about finances when you’re just getting started. You may be juggling multiple expenses, from childcare to equipment to marketing costs, and it can feel overwhelming.

The truth is, managing finances is a skill that can be learned. Start by creating a budget and tracking your expenses, so you have a clear understanding of where your money is going. Consider hiring an accountant or financial planner to help you create a financial plan for your business and personal finances.

You can also look for ways to cut costs without sacrificing quality. For example, consider using free or low-cost marketing tools, like social media or email marketing, instead of expensive advertising campaigns. Unless you are an expert at it, you may end up spending much moron the first few years. My advice would be to test your business and ideas out organically before you spend a dime on paid advertising. You can also negotiate with suppliers or contractors to get better prices, or consider bartering services with other entrepreneurs to save money.

Remember that building a business takes time, and it’s okay to start small and grow gradually. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself to have everything perfect from the start – focus on building a solid foundation and growing your business sustainably.


5. Making time for self-care

As a mom entrepreneur, it can be easy to put your own needs last. You may feel like you don’t have time for self-care, or that it’s selfish to prioritize your own well-being. Like point two on isolation, you may feel like your business comes first, but this is a pain we put on our own selves. On the contrary, your business, marriage/relationship, children and relatives need you to be your best self!

The truth is, self-care is essential for your physical and mental health – and it can actually help you be more productive and successful in your business. Making time for activities that recharge you, like exercise, meditation, or spending time in nature, can help you stay energized and focused.

It’s also important to set boundaries around your work time and prioritize rest and relaxation. Make sure you’re getting enough sleep, and take breaks throughout the day to stretch, go for a walk, or do something that brings you joy.

Remember that taking care of yourself isn’t selfish – it’s necessary for your own well-being and the well-being of your family and business.



Conclusion

Being a mom entrepreneur is a journey that comes with its own set of challenges, but it’s also incredibly rewarding. By acknowledging the challenges and seeking support and guidance, you can navigate the ups and downs of building a business while also raising a family.

Remember that balancing work and family, dealing with self-doubt, overcoming isolation, managing finances, and making time for self-care are all things that may seem impossible at first, but that will get easier with time and practice.

Stay focused, stay positive, and don’t be afraid to ask for help when you need it. With perseverance and determination, you can build a successful business and create a fulfilling life as a mom entrepreneur.

xoxo

Kelisha

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Kelisha Mills

Kelisha Mills

Hi, I`m Kelisha Mills! I`m a wife, a mom of 4, and an Entrepreneur for over 15 years. My emarkable gift lies in igniting the entrepreneurial spirit within mompreneurs, propelling them toward their aspirations.
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